How To Get Consent For Your Child To Move To Australia

How To Get Consent For Your Child To Move To Australia

If you’re divorced and looking to move to Australia, one of the questions you may be asking is how you can get consent from your ex for your children to move to Australia with you. It’s not an uncommon situation and I’ve heard from readers who have had to wait more than 3 years fighting it out in court before they could even start the visa application process. If you want to find out how to get consent for your child to move to Australia, this blog may help you.

David from Pathway Lawyers & Migration Agents has written this post to help parents who are looking to migrate to Australia but their ex is refusing to allow it.

 

What do you do when you want to move overseas and your ex doesn’t want to give permission for your child to go with you? This is exactly what happened to Sunette* “My ex and I have a terrible relationship. It was a terrible time in my life. As a father, he has not been very involved.” When her new husband received a great job opportunity in Australia, she was torn. “I thought, he’s never going to let us go. He will just make it as difficult as possible.”

There’s a common misconception that if you’re not married to your child’s other biological parent, then you can’t leave South Africa. Not so, according to migration lawyer David Dadic. “The misconception generally stems from the requirement of most governments that in order for one parent to emigrate, he or she requires the other biological parent’s consent to the emigration. Often, and because of, the fractured relationship between the parents, the remaining parent is uninclined to give the necessary consent (even when the emigration is unquestionably in the best interest of the child), leaving the migrating parent with a severe sense of frustration and hopelessness.”

Fortunately, the common misconception is just that, and the migrating parent does in fact have several options available to him or her to facilitate their migration with their child, should the remaining parent resist giving the necessary consent.

Court Order

The most common recourse in situations such as this is for the migrating parent to make an application to court seeking a court order that he or she have the sole decision-making role as to the child’s migration, thereby disposing of the need for the consent. These applications can be quite cumbersome, particularly when there is much acrimonious history between the biological parents. Additionally, the motivation that the child’s best interest is being best served by leaving South Africa, and then growing up in Australia away from the remaining parent, needs to be very well evaluated. So, considering that success of this application may ultimately affect your entire migration it’s sensible to instruct lawyers who are well versed in such applications.

However, all is not lost. “Recently, there have been many cases where the migrating parents have successfully obtained the court orders necessary to either force the remaining parent to consent to the emigration or disposing of the consents altogether,” says David.

Fundamentally the court must decide what’s in the best interest of the child – either to stay or go – but it’s these recent cases that have largely turned the tide in favour of the migrating parent. 

Agreement 

Most split parents will know that the practical administering of a child’s care is ultimately decided between the parents by an agreement. Even after many months or years of ugly litigation they are eventually able to come together and through a formal agreement decide on things such as maintenance, contact, schooling etc. Parents will also know that, because the agreement is usually made an order of court, should one of the parents breach their obligations that parent then becomes susceptible to further court orders (and related legal costs) forcing their compliance.

In the way that general child care issues are agreed to between the parents so can any issues regarding emigration. The parents can regulate, and agree on, how often the child will telephone or Skype call the remaining parent, how often and for what duration the child will come back to see the remaining parent or in fact that parent coming to visit the child. This agreement can also, as with those ordinarily done between parents, be made an order of the South African court.

For Suzette, the road ahead is a long one. “My ex won’t give us consent, so now we are turning to the courts to let us go. I have a great lawyer that’s helping us. The frustrating thing is that my husband had to go to take the job, so we are here on our own while we wait.”

So, if you’re finding yourself in the predicament where you have the opportunity to raise your child or children overseas, but are having issues in getting their biological parent to agree, don’t feel disheartened and give up on your dreams, you are most certainly not without options.  “But be aware that because the mirroring of the court orders from South Africa can be somewhat complex it’s best to instruct as lawyer who has experience in local and international law,” concludes David.

*Name changed to protect identity

 

Thank you to Pathway Lawyers & Migration Agents for writing this blog for Proudly South African In Perth.

They have advisors who are uniquely both registered migration agents and lawyers, so they are well placed to help you with each and every aspect of your move to Australia. They run a Facebook group, Migrating to Australia, where you can have all your migration questions answered. As a special offer to my readers, they are offering a free consultation if you email them and quote “Proudly South African In Perth”.

Enjoyed this? Check out David’s other post I Want To Migrate To Australia: Where Do I Start?

 

 

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2 Comments

  • Reply Margaret 12th February 2018 at 8:54 pm

    Do I have to get a court order stating my ex granting consent to leave SA ?? Which is likely impossible. My parents are in Perth and I would love to leave with my child but my ex would definitely not give his consent for us to leave

    • Reply Reeva Cutting 18th February 2018 at 4:02 pm

      Hi Margaret, definitely speak to a lawyer and migration agent to get personalised advice. Contact David from Pathway Lawyers and Migration Agents as they specialise in cases like this. Good luck!

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